10 little tips for big emotions

How to reignite the romance in your relationship

Romance is good for any relationship! Showing your partner that you care about them and that they are important to you is simply part of a healthy partnership. This isn’t just for hopeless romantics – quite the opposite. Anyone can help to give their loved one those precious moments that will be remembered for a long time to come.

Everyday life is the enemy of romance. Admittedly, this statement is a bit of an exaggeration, but appreciation and empathy do sometimes get neglected in daily life together. There’s no time left for lovely moments together because other things seem more important. In a relationship, therefore, you should first and foremost keep a close eye on yourself. Am I attentive enough towards my partner? How much time do we have for moments together each week? What can I do to bring romance back into the relationship?

According to American studies, couples who, in bed, spend time cuddling and chatting as well as engaging in intimate activities, are simply happier. This ‘pillow talk’ is like medicine. You snuggle up close together, rather than ignoring each other at the kitchen table or in front of the TV. You speak gently and freely, listen to each other, show empathy, know how the other person is feeling, learn about their fears, hopes and wishes, and get to know your partner better on a deeper level. This is a very healing and important process for any relationship!

Maintaining romance in everyday life isn’t actually that time-consuming or difficult. Often, small things like loving gestures, messages and, above all, paying attention to the other person are enough to show how important your partner is to you.

Find out for yourself which tips work best for your relationship:

Romance tip 1:

Make time for each other regularly! During this time, you are there solely for your partner and spend special moments together. For example, at a spa, on a hike together, on lovely outings, over a romantic dinner, or whilst sharing a new experience. Nothing should disturb your time together. So it’s best to switch off your mobile for a few hours.

Romance tip 2:

Two are stronger than one! There’s plenty to do around the house. When both partners support or help each other, things get done much more easily and quickly. The key is achieving a goal together. This support is also a sign of appreciation. You treat each other as equals and automatically grow closer as a result.

Romance tip 3:

Breakfast in bed! If you have time (e.g. on a Sunday morning), surprise your partner when they wake up with breakfast in bed. With a few flowers or chocolates, it also becomes a little declaration of love. What counts here is the attention you give your partner. And after breakfast, hopefully there’ll still be time for cuddles or other activities in bed.

Romance tip 4:

Words of love. There should always be room for a little love note. Have to get up early? Then leave a loving note on the sofa, kitchen table or fridge. A romantic text message or an email with sweet words also ensures the other person doesn’t forget that you love them. If you’re good with words, feel free to write a poem now and then. But don’t overdo it, because if writing becomes part of everyday life, it’s no longer anything special.

Romance tip 5:

Refresh your memories. Yes, it’s true, you shouldn’t live in the past, but it’s just as much a part of life as the present. From time to time, it’s quite therapeutic to remember how you got together or all the things you’ve experienced as a couple. A glance at the photo album or your favourite song together is often enough to rekindle romantic feelings.

Romance tip 6:

Surprise!!! Rescue your partner from the daily grind! Whether at work or at the weekend, be there on the spur of the moment and whisk your partner away for a picnic in the park, a candlelit dinner or a trip to the countryside together. That’s how you break out of the daily rut and rediscover each other.

Romance tip 7:

Love is in the kitchen! Food can be a very important part of romance. Not just when dining out, but also at home when you prepare it together. When shopping as a couple, you pick out the right ingredients and cook a romantic dinner together. OK, not everyone can cook together. In that case, simply divide up the courses. You prepare the starter or dessert and your partner the main course. If you create an atmospheric setting to go with it, nothing stands in the way of a romantic evening.

Romance tip 8:

A spontaneous holiday! Friday afternoon: Fancy a little trip down south? Why not. Pack your bags and head to the seaside or the nearest spa hotel. Put your feet up for a whole weekend and let your mind wander.

Romance tip 9:

With the power of nature. Nature is our original home. It is only since the 20th century that we have become increasingly disconnected from it. But this is where our roots lie. Nature gives us strength and can rekindle passion. Because only those who feel healthy and full of energy can give their partner enough attention. A mountain hike together, a walk around the lake or simply a stroll in the woods – just as in life, you go through thick and thin together. It’s lovely when you can walk the path together.

Romance tip 10:

New experiences to replace old habits. Break out of your routine and treat yourselves to a new experience. What haven’t you seen or tried yet? Challenge your preconceptions and be open to new things. A new place, a new hobby, a different restaurant, a new challenge or a fresh perspective. Discover new sides to yourselves and your partner and let yourselves be surprised!

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Written by Christian Messmer